GhLinks Media
Relationship adviser, Blessing Okoro has told women who do domestic chores for their boyfriend’s, to go and develop themselves.
According to Blessing Okoro, women need to realize that choosing to cook, clean or wash for their man doesn’t make them wife material.
She said that rather than do all that, women need to focus on self-development because men want a lot more than such services, as they can even now afford to pay people to do the washing and cooking.
Blessing in a video she posted on her Instagram page, added that women are the reason men use and dump them because they are not independent.
In her words; ”Dear women, cooking and house chores does not make you a wife, go and develop yourselves, house chores, cooking for him, washing for him, doing all those busy bodies does not make you a wife, you need to develop yourselves.”
“Marriage is not slavery, marriage is for companionship and when you are companioned with somebody, you need to learn how to communicate. It is you women that has made a lot of men turn you to slaves, because many of you women are sacred of self-development.”
A lot of men have dumped you today and you are wondering why in as much as you have been cleaning and washing for them, it’s because they have outgrown you, a man can now afford to pay for those things that you do for him.”
“What would you hold on to if a man decides to let you go? But if you develop yourself, you empower yourself and you become independent.”
