It’s not easy, especially when you love him. But, if you notice that he’s not fully invested into the relationship like you are, then you need to re-evaluate what you’re doing.
Men can hang around for years without feeling the need to seriously commit to you, which is fine, if that’s what you agreed upon. Marriage is something that you either want or you don’t, and though we all wish that the guy we like would want to marry us, the fact is that sometimes, he’s just not on the same page.
If you see any of these signs, it may be time to have a serious talk, or just leave for more committed pastures:
1. EVERY TIME THAT YOU ASK ABOUT HIM POPPING THE QUESTION, HE LAUGHS IT OFF OR CHANGES THE SUBJECT.
This is a sign that he’s really not comfortable making a promise, simply because he’s not interested in marrying you. No matter how hard you press the issue, this guy has already made up his mind about his future, and it doesn’t involve walking down the aisle with you.
2. HE FLAT-OUT TOLD YOU HE DOESN’T BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE.
When a guy says this, what he really means is that he doesn’t believe in marriage with you. This is a sign that he’s already made up his mind, and that if you decide to be with him, a wedding will never be in the picture.
3. HE WON’T EVEN CALL YOU HIS GIRLFRIEND.
If you can’t get him to commit to being your actual boyfriend, what makes you think that him becoming a hubby is going to happen?
4. WHEN YOU BRING UP MARRIAGE, HE GETS DEFENSIVE, ANGRY, OR ANNOYED.
This reaction means one of two things: he hates that he’s being called out on his crap, or he’s really sick and tired of hearing the marriage talk.
5. HE’S REALLY NOT INTERESTED IN HAVING YOU MEET OR HANG OUT WITH HIS FAMILY.
Marriage is a merger of families, and if he’s not into the idea of marrying you, he will want to keep both families separate. This way, his family won’t get too attached to you, and vice versa.